One thing that I absolutely hate do it is to argue.
My friends and family say that I am a passive aggressive person, but I think to think of if differently.
I just don’t see the point of having an argument when you can just sit down with someone and talk about a problem rationally. While I wish I could say that my roommate felt the same way, but after last weeks events I think I can honestly say I think she loves conflict and drama. I have lived with my current roommate for about four years now, we went to the same college and lived in the same dorm. I started to notice that when I got home from work the air conditioner was blasting and our apartment was freezing cold. After about a week of changing the temperature and moving on I was confronted by my roommate. She said that I was being selfing about constantly changing the thermostat from the temperature she set it at. She said that I always wanted the apartment to be warmer so we could save money on the energy bill. While this is true, I had never thought of my changing the temperature of the thermostat as being selfish. I just honestly thought that she was forgetting to turn it down when she left for work. I don’t want to argue about the temperature we set our heating and cooling system to. So, I am just going to let her keep the thermostat at whatever temperature she likes and I am not going to say a word about it.